Michael Aram will
be at Neiman Marcus Fashion Island for a signing event on Wednesday October
28th from 1-4pm
After a rush to get Cameron out the door and off to preschool and getting the gardener to stop using the loud leaf blower (at least for a while), I sat with a cup of coffee in hand and waited for the designer Michael Aram
to call moi. I didn’t have to wait
very long. At exactly 10 a.m. my telephone rang. I answered with a high-pitched
Peppa Pig like voice saying “hello!”
knowing very well who was going to be on the other end. He sounded exactly as I
had imagined him: warm, friendly and as his name implies; soft spoken. He spoke
with me from a ferryboat, with his children playing in the background. I
assumed he was taking a ferry ride along the Hudson River and was admiring Lady
Liberty up close, as I had done with my son when I was in New York City. It
didn’t occur to me, to ask.
What I learned about the man, renowned for his beautiful metal
serving objects, is that there's a level of integrity in his life and work. A
trip he made to India when he was in his early 20s changed everything. He was
so impressed by the craftsmanship he saw there, that he decided to create a
handful of metal objects, mostly for his own pleasure and returned home with
the hope that others may like them too. The rest is history. His creations are
now available across the globe, with a flagship store in NYC. He’s forged
together the worlds of art and business seamlessly. Aram’s creations are often
my go to items when I’m shopping for a hostess gift. Even though his creations translate as the perfect gifts for the home, I know that the most important kind of
generosity is not just about the items we buy or give but it’s the generosity
of spirit. It’s what we share of ourselves, with others that counts. And he was both generous,
with his answers and his time.
Here’s what we chatted about while I sipped, my re-heated, morning
cup of coffee: |
| Michael, the twins - Anabel and Thadeus and his partner Aret, during the ceremony of the unveiling that took place on October 6th 2015, of his first permanent sculpture, entitled "Migrations" that Michael designed to commemorate the centennial of the Armenian genocide, as he is a descendant of genocide survivors. It has been permanently installed at the plaza of St. Vartan Armenian Cathedral in NYC. |
SA: Tell me about
your family life:
MA: Well, we have the most incredible four and half year old twins.
They are girl/boy twins (Anabel and Thadeus) they’re certainly the light of our
lives. My partner and I, Aret, we’re both Armenian, and we’ve been together for
8 years now. The kids have changed everything for me. As much, as I love my
work and as much as I love what I do, it’s all for them now. And they certainly
come first in our lives.
SA: Are you aware
that Iranians consider you as one of their own?
MA: I’m aware of it and I’m so grateful for it. It’s always so sweet
when I’m at personal appearances and people come up to me asking if I’m
Persian. I tell them, I’m actually Armenian, but we are neighbors and
linguistically and culturally there’s so much similarity. I love my connection
with the culture, language and food. I’m glad they feel a connection to my
work, and to me, and they assimilate me into their lives the way they do.
SA: Did you know
your (middle name) Aram means gentle? And is that a characteristic you think
you possess?
MA: Yes, because of all the Moghul influences in the Hindi language,
Aram means the same thing in Hindi. It’s something we always tell our craftsmen
in India, we tell them in Hindi, “do it with Aram,” meaning create it, with
peace. There’s definitely a sense of peacefulness in my work. It’s like slow cooking; when you do
things that are handmade, there’s always a vibration and you only get that
through each hammer mark and each file mark. You do get the sense of something
being a labor of love. In my own personality, I’m a peaceful guy and I think
that might have translated into my work.
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| Michael in his workshop in India with a few craftsmen and the makings of the Orchid Collection. |
SA: What are your
golden rules when it comes to entertaining?
MA: I believe that there’s a sacredness when it comes to hospitality
and your guests are your blessings. When I entertain I use the saying, “open
heart, open door.” I’m not someone who gets uptight when I entertain, I think
the gift of having someone in your home is just to be hospitable to them, no
matter what. I think it’s important to let go, a little. When you decide that
you’re going to have fun, then “the more, the merrier,” it’s never going to be
a strain. And you’ll open your last bottle of wine, if you have to.
SA: If you had to
choose between paper plates and plastic cutlery what would it be?
MA: (Chuckles) You’re putting me on the spot. I don’t know whether
you know this, but we make plastic cutlery and paper plates.
SA: No, I had no
idea.
MA: If you’re by your computer type in MADHOUSE by Michael Aram and
you will see the most incredible paper plates, paper napkins and plastic
cutlery. I’m very proud of the work. We try and execute things at the highest
level of design and the highest level of materials for the category. They’re
just exquisite. We’ve interpreted our twig cutlery, into clear plastic and
we’ve created sculpted melamine plates that look like porcelain. We use them
everyday with the kids.
SA: The best
dinner guest is…. fill in the blank for me:
MA: I like guests that feel absolutely at home and relaxed in my
home and they treat my house like it’s theirs. I have so many friends that make
me feel at home when I am their guest, and so I like guests that get up and
pitch in, then it feels like they’re family.
SA: What’s the
most recent meal you’ve cooked?
MA: I made Eech, it’s an Armenian cold salad, made with bulgur
wheat, fresh mint and parsley. It’s like a tabbouleh but it’s made with bulgur
grain. That’s the last thing I made and we’re eating it today, on the ferry
ride with the kids.
SA: What are you
reading right now?
MA: I’m proud to say, I’m reading a variety of children’s books for
my kids. That’s what I read every evening.
SA: What’s your
favorite children's book?
MA: Anything by British author Julia Donaldson. She has written
books like The Gruffalo and Room On The Broom which is charming. We
own everything she has ever written. The stories have this British sense of humor
which I really appreciate, they’re also poetic and there’s a little dark side
to them, so there are things that boys and girls like.
SA: You’ve lived
in India on and off, over the last 25 years, do you have the hang of the
Indian head shake, with its multitude of meanings?
MA: (He laughs) Yes, I’ve even mastered it! My Indian friends don’t
consider me non-Indian, after all these years, I’m one of the few foreigners
and there’s only a handful of us in New Delhi, who are really committed to
building a company, building a home and having a life there. We are not just in
and out of the Embassy or the company but we’ve established ourselves there. I
feel very much part of the landscape and I feel very much at home there.
SA: You have a
home in New York and one in New Delhi, do you travel with your partner and kids
to India?
MA: My partner has been there several times with me. The kids
haven’t been there yet. We feel they’re still a little young for the trip. I
really look forward to the day they travel there. My son, Thadeus, (named after,
the patron saint of the Armenian church) looks like a Punjabi boy, he has dark
olive skin with long eyelashes. He looks like all the boys in North India and I
keep thinking when he finally gets to go to India he is going to feel, so at
home.
SA: When you go to
India what do you miss about Amercia?
MA: I miss things that are not nice to say. What I love about
America is there is great commonality with everyone. We can look, at each other
in the eye. There’s something that’s easy here socially, and you can interact
with everyone in every spectrum of society and across genders. In India there
are, all these layers of behavior. There is little in the sense of class and no
sense of caste here, but that still exists in India. I live in a home in India,
that was built in 1945 and even the architecture of the home shows signs of the
caste system. The bathrooms, all exit directly into the garden, because the
person cleaning your bathroom could not enter the rest of your house.
SA: Have you seen
any improvement over the years?
MA: Yes, it’s certainly getting better. My friends tell me that even
from the time of their parents’ generation, things have changed a lot.
SA: When you come
here what do you miss about India the most?
MA: I miss the fact that my friends are very integrated in my life
in India. They use this expression “land up,” they land, up at your door. Usually,
even before I arrive, my friends would have called my house, the week before,
and asked my cook “when is Michael saab
coming?” When I arrive my phone is already ringing and my friends are asking
when are we going to get together.
There is such a bond between us there. There’s not a sense of formality.
I often joke and say that in India nobody needs a shrink since we talk to our
friends. In India “lets meet” means let’s meet and talk. We all depend on one
another there.
SA: What’s your
favorite gift to take with you when you visit someone’s home?
MA: My favorite gifts are more like combination gifts. Sometimes I
feel a bit shy about just taking my own work, because people will assume that
I’m not making any effort. If I take a cake stand I will usually take a home
baked cake with it. If I don’t have time, then it’s a bottle of wine and some
coasters. I like this idea that there should be something to celebrate and
something to leave behind, as a reminder of the beautiful evening you’ve had.
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| The Palm Collection (Fall 2015) inspired by the beauty of the windswept palm tree and the perfectly imperfect shapes of woven palm leaves and fallen fronds. |
SA: What’s the best hostess gift you’ve ever received?
MA: Great question. I love this question, because it’s really makes
me think… I remember when I had my first apartment in New York, my mom and dad
came to visit me with a beautiful bouquet of flowers in a vase that belonged to
my grandmother. I love objects that have a meaning, they’re heirloom pieces.
You treasure them in a way that you could never treasure anything else.
SA: I love your mermaid
bowl. It’s on my lust list. Tell me a little about it:
MA: I made that piece probably about 18 years ago and we brought it
back as part of our commemorative collection, at that time all my items were
just individual pieces, nothing was a collection. I love it for a variety of
reasons; you can fill it with ice and place Champagne bottles in it and use it
as a beautiful party ice bucket. We’ve arranged flowers in it, you can use it
as a punch bowl or a centerpiece bowl and since it’s stainless steel, you can
serve food it in too.
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| The whimsical stainless steel Mermaid Bowl is part of the 25th Anniversary Commemorative Collection, $895. |
SA: Your objects
are decorative yet functional and many of them are inspired by the elements in
nature, tell me about that:
MA: I like to show the different phases of life and even decay. I
believe there is beauty to be seen in imperfections. I’m fascinated with the
idea of how we fit into this world, with all its phases of life and decay.
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| The Joshua Tree collection, for Fall 2015, is inspired by a trip Michael made to Joshua Tree National Park in Southern California. |
SA: What’s your
favorite item of clothing?
MA: All I ever wear, and I mean this; are blue jeans and checkered
shirts.
SA: Do you have a
favorite pair of blue jeans?
MA: I wear Gap jeans. I’m not super fancy. But I do like nice
shirts. I love wearing pocket squares. It’s really rare to see me in a tie, so it might make up for that. My kids love to pull out my pocket squares, every
morning, before I go to work.
SA: What’s the
most challenging part of parenthood?
MA: (Laughs) Right now my daughter’s tugging at me, while I’m on the
telephone.
SA: What’s the
best thing about being a father?
MA: Getting a sense of unconditional love from them and feeling the
unconditional love for them.
SA: You have
a furniture line, jewelry collection, candles, porcelain and even stemware.
What’s next for Michael Aram?
MA: One area that we are looking into is textiles and perhaps rugs.
I also really enjoy creating one of a kind art sculptures.
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The Michael Aram collection is available at Neiman Marcus Fashion Island and at www.michaelaram.com. Michael Aram be at Neiman Marcus on Wednesday, October 28th, from 1- 4pm. RSVP to 949-467-3327.
